Shame is NOT killed by dressing in the buff

Woman do not need to show breast in order to not be ashamed of their body. Dressing in the buff does not produce a shame free ego. We need to be concerned about how our way of dress makes men feel about us. It not that we should be ashamed that they are having issues of lust for us. Trafficking victims are not prostitutes who were given a choice. Most prostitutes weren't given a choice. Most prostitutes are victims.

Shame -
It is NOT shameful to dress conservatively.
It is NOT shameful to care about dressing in ways to help men be better men.
It is NOT shameful to cover-up cleavage so that men aren't lusting after what is not rightfully theres.
It is NOT shameful to dress such that men are less desiring of having a child in a sinful way.

We are taught that we as women, need to cover up, or we are bad. So, one person thought she should go in the buff to prove that the body is not shameful. The body never was shameful in the first place. Going in the buff does NOT make a person raise their self-esteem - from one who was in the buff for many a year. I am NOT ashamed of  my body. I AM outraged by the reactions I got from grown  men when I went in the buff. I do NOT need to see willies rise and want me everytime I walk by. That does NOT stop shame. That does NOT make me feel proud of ME. I know that if I dress in a the wrong way, men who have been abused themselves as children WILL want to go and have a child in a sinful way.

Is this what you want? NO! You are trying to stop this! What can stop this? Yes, we need to empower women. We need to teach male egotistical judges that prostitutes who were kidnapped as children are VICTIMS and did NOT go willingly. Some are 8 or 9 years old and forced into the traffiking. They sometimes kill to escape! That is NOT murder! That is self-defense!

Why do they think they deserve this? They are brain washed! Going in the buff is not going to teach them to not be ashamed of themselves. Being raped and molested is what brought on the shame in the first place!

These people were told a lie! Others were kidnapped. Teenagers are lured in by the promise of a better life. Children who did NOT run away, were kidnapped and forced into it with OUT having a better life lure put in front of them. Some were lured by candy, true. However, most are just kidnapped outright. See Jacob Wetterling. He was kidnapped in front of his friends without any promises whatsoever.

What is the solution? Teach kids from a very early age, what love is and what love is not. Teach them how to deal with life.

Lastly, victims who were raped aren't rags. The person who raped them IS, WAS and ALWAYS will be the Rag!