NRA is up in arms over an Obama Ad. I am up in arms at NRA's insistence on not understanding how dangerous it is to be a high profile person of wealth. President Obama's daughters are more likely to be kidnapped then almost any daughter of an NRA member. Who do you think might want to kidnap them to further their evil cause? Do you really think that the average daughter would be just as enticing? I assure you, they would get more publicity from someone rich (for their money) or famous (just for media attention).
Would armed guards had prevented the tragedy? What happens during Martial Law? It is an immediate response to secure an unsecure city. Armed men rule the streets. It results in less violence from citizens, because no one is allowed to do anything after dark. Obviously, less crime is going to happen.
What about schools? Would armed guards have prevented this? They only could have prevented this if they shot and killed anyone who they thought had a gun, before the evil one had a chance to kill. Those vest do not protect all areas of the human body. The face, arms, hands, and legs are still very much exposed.
What would really help immensely to stop the violence in this country? Adding more counselors to schools would NOT help. I knew a kid who spend half his life in the counselors office and laughed at them. He laughed at authority. He did not give one iota what they said or thought. Lets try Behavioral Therapist who are trained to deal with PTSD, Arrogantly abusive Parents and helping children overcome the results of such abusive parenting, Autism, Aspergers and Mental Illness. These Behavioral Therapist would work in every classroom, during the entire day and would work one on one with those students who needed such help.
Anyone whose mental condition makes them afraid of people do NOT need to be mainstreamed! I've said this before in another post. What happened at Sandy Hook Elementary is what we should expect when someone who has a severe phobia is forced to face their phobia without the proper help. Why do you think they use a circular rope and have severe autistics hang on to the rope, and then slowly learn to go into the inner circle and closer to other kids just like them? They need to slowly get used to being around people. They need to be taught, one on one, how to read body language and how to interpret the world around them.
People who are not in their right minds are not the same people who are dealing with Austism Spectrum Disorders. Austism Spectrum Disorder parallels mental illness, but its not a mental illness. They just don't make sense of the world around them like we do. The Mentally Ill has a distorted view of the world around them. The difference is this. Pretend you were suddenly jaunted into a world with strange body language and spoke a language you didn't understand at all. Pretend they only spoke at you with no clues as to what they wanted. This is what some people with Autistic Spectrum Disorders see. This is not true of all people with this disorder, as the disorder has many levels of severity. People with this disorder have many more ways of viewing life, just like the rest of the world does.
The severely mentally ill, tend to be more angry, more depressed, more emotional but the difference is still in the brain and how the brain processes the world. They are more likely to hear voices and act on those voices they hear.
Behavioral Therapy where by the person works with the client IN the situations that the client goes through as the client is going through them (live time, if you will) can help teach the client how to behave and process the world around them.
Prevention would do more to change lives then laws to ban would. If we had cops on every corner, the pick pockets would just learn to be more clever in picking that pocket. If we were to teach people how to create their own healthy, legal jobs, they wouldn't have a need to pick pocket. No, paying for business degrees won't teach them this. It would help, though. Students need to be helped in finding their talents and helped in figuring out how they can make money off of their talents. Students also need to learn how to overcome their violent childhood whether that violence is due to theirs or others mental illness. They need to be taught how to read the world around them, no matter how their brain is wired. This will do more to prevent what happened at Sandy Hook, then any gun control law can. Remember, gang members still get guns and most of those guns they get, are illegally gotten.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Monday, January 14, 2013
Shame is NOT killed by dressing in the buff
Woman do not need to show breast in order to not be ashamed of their body. Dressing in the buff does not produce a shame free ego. We need to be concerned about how our way of dress makes men feel about us. It not that we should be ashamed that they are having issues of lust for us. Trafficking victims are not prostitutes who were given a choice. Most prostitutes weren't given a choice. Most prostitutes are victims.
Shame -
It is NOT shameful to dress conservatively.
It is NOT shameful to care about dressing in ways to help men be better men.
It is NOT shameful to cover-up cleavage so that men aren't lusting after what is not rightfully theres.
It is NOT shameful to dress such that men are less desiring of having a child in a sinful way.
We are taught that we as women, need to cover up, or we are bad. So, one person thought she should go in the buff to prove that the body is not shameful. The body never was shameful in the first place. Going in the buff does NOT make a person raise their self-esteem - from one who was in the buff for many a year. I am NOT ashamed of my body. I AM outraged by the reactions I got from grown men when I went in the buff. I do NOT need to see willies rise and want me everytime I walk by. That does NOT stop shame. That does NOT make me feel proud of ME. I know that if I dress in a the wrong way, men who have been abused themselves as children WILL want to go and have a child in a sinful way.
Is this what you want? NO! You are trying to stop this! What can stop this? Yes, we need to empower women. We need to teach male egotistical judges that prostitutes who were kidnapped as children are VICTIMS and did NOT go willingly. Some are 8 or 9 years old and forced into the traffiking. They sometimes kill to escape! That is NOT murder! That is self-defense!
Why do they think they deserve this? They are brain washed! Going in the buff is not going to teach them to not be ashamed of themselves. Being raped and molested is what brought on the shame in the first place!
These people were told a lie! Others were kidnapped. Teenagers are lured in by the promise of a better life. Children who did NOT run away, were kidnapped and forced into it with OUT having a better life lure put in front of them. Some were lured by candy, true. However, most are just kidnapped outright. See Jacob Wetterling. He was kidnapped in front of his friends without any promises whatsoever.
What is the solution? Teach kids from a very early age, what love is and what love is not. Teach them how to deal with life.
Lastly, victims who were raped aren't rags. The person who raped them IS, WAS and ALWAYS will be the Rag!
Friday, January 4, 2013
Europe vs. USA and Cultural Differences.
If you were to look at a movie's ratings and then view its contents, you can tell if the movie came from USA or not. Is this a good thing? Well, technically, no.
Europe ranks violence higher than sex content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to have intercourse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.
USA ranks sex higher than violence content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to kill, maim, hit, abuse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.
Sex addiction begat pedophiles. Violence addiction begat killers of children. Both have caused many millions of children to be hit, raped, molested, murdered.
Think about it. Way back in the day, people respected each other. Teenagers wouldn't even think to talk back to a teacher. Teenagers wouldn't dare put a toe out of line. Now, teenagers rule with violence and sex. They threaten other peers with death if they don't get their sex and if the victim tells. We don't need this in our world. No society needs this. My sister was raped by 2 kids, repeatedly from age 6 to age 15. I believe I know who did this. They threatened to kill her if she told. I want justice. My sister refuses to tell anyone. My sister can not get a job because she is frozen. I will get justice for my sister if it the last thing I do. I will tell the police and ask them to help get this case to court. My sister face terrorist threats because of a sex addiction! Is this what you want for your teenagers? Do you want this for your little baby girl? Do you want her to be raped and molested? My sister got pregnant out of wedlock because she dared not ever say no!
Take a look at Greenland. Amongst the Inuits, the culture is that all 15 year olds should get pregnant before marriage and before they graduate from school. If they aren't pregnant, then something is wrong with them. That is the culture. Result? Illiteracy of all things. They don't have the opportunity to go to University, run their own business, make a decent living. They are stuck making holes in ice for food. They are stuck being sex slaves. They are not given a choice. They are told to they will do it, or else. Some are beaten with belts if they don't do it. Some have their heads thrown against a wall. Is this what you want your children to be like? Do you really think that this won't happen here too?
Here, we can choose to live anywhere in the world we want to live, have any job we want to have, be who ever we want to be. The Inuit Teenagers are not given this choice. They are banned from birth control pills. They are banned from abstinence by sex addicted parents. The alcohol and drug abuse rates are very high. The poverty levels are very high.
Many parents in Europe and in the USA get drunk and abuse their kids. Many kids are raised on pornography. Many kids who go to Naturalist camps are raised on pornography. Many kids are raised in very violent homes. What we allow our kids to see in movies does impact how they treat others. Teach your children to lust after every thing they see....teach your children to not deal with life in a healthy manner, and you will see your children imprisoned in addiction that will never go away without professional help. And, many of those children will grow up to be imprisoned behind bars as an adult for pedophile with a very young girl.
I can only hope that we wake up and change our movies to be healthier, funnier, and cleaner. I can only hope that the 2 neighbor boys, their mother, and their Uncles, and Grandfather if he is still alive are put in prison and the key thrown out. Yes, the father may also be to blame. What would be left after that? The triplets - 2 of which I am sure are innocent. The 3rd may not be, but I do not know. I do know that the triplet and the 2 neighbor boys and the mom were all victims of predatory Uncles and possible, their Grandfather too. The mom was a victim of her own dad and brothers. This too, is violence.
Europe ranks violence higher than sex content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to have intercourse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.
USA ranks sex higher than violence content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to kill, maim, hit, abuse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.
Sex addiction begat pedophiles. Violence addiction begat killers of children. Both have caused many millions of children to be hit, raped, molested, murdered.
Think about it. Way back in the day, people respected each other. Teenagers wouldn't even think to talk back to a teacher. Teenagers wouldn't dare put a toe out of line. Now, teenagers rule with violence and sex. They threaten other peers with death if they don't get their sex and if the victim tells. We don't need this in our world. No society needs this. My sister was raped by 2 kids, repeatedly from age 6 to age 15. I believe I know who did this. They threatened to kill her if she told. I want justice. My sister refuses to tell anyone. My sister can not get a job because she is frozen. I will get justice for my sister if it the last thing I do. I will tell the police and ask them to help get this case to court. My sister face terrorist threats because of a sex addiction! Is this what you want for your teenagers? Do you want this for your little baby girl? Do you want her to be raped and molested? My sister got pregnant out of wedlock because she dared not ever say no!
Take a look at Greenland. Amongst the Inuits, the culture is that all 15 year olds should get pregnant before marriage and before they graduate from school. If they aren't pregnant, then something is wrong with them. That is the culture. Result? Illiteracy of all things. They don't have the opportunity to go to University, run their own business, make a decent living. They are stuck making holes in ice for food. They are stuck being sex slaves. They are not given a choice. They are told to they will do it, or else. Some are beaten with belts if they don't do it. Some have their heads thrown against a wall. Is this what you want your children to be like? Do you really think that this won't happen here too?
Here, we can choose to live anywhere in the world we want to live, have any job we want to have, be who ever we want to be. The Inuit Teenagers are not given this choice. They are banned from birth control pills. They are banned from abstinence by sex addicted parents. The alcohol and drug abuse rates are very high. The poverty levels are very high.
Many parents in Europe and in the USA get drunk and abuse their kids. Many kids are raised on pornography. Many kids who go to Naturalist camps are raised on pornography. Many kids are raised in very violent homes. What we allow our kids to see in movies does impact how they treat others. Teach your children to lust after every thing they see....teach your children to not deal with life in a healthy manner, and you will see your children imprisoned in addiction that will never go away without professional help. And, many of those children will grow up to be imprisoned behind bars as an adult for pedophile with a very young girl.
I can only hope that we wake up and change our movies to be healthier, funnier, and cleaner. I can only hope that the 2 neighbor boys, their mother, and their Uncles, and Grandfather if he is still alive are put in prison and the key thrown out. Yes, the father may also be to blame. What would be left after that? The triplets - 2 of which I am sure are innocent. The 3rd may not be, but I do not know. I do know that the triplet and the 2 neighbor boys and the mom were all victims of predatory Uncles and possible, their Grandfather too. The mom was a victim of her own dad and brothers. This too, is violence.
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