NRA does NOT want high profile people protected

NRA is up in arms over an Obama Ad. I am up in arms at NRA's insistence on not understanding how dangerous it is to be a high profile person of wealth. President Obama's daughters are more likely to be kidnapped then almost any daughter of an NRA member. Who do you think might want to kidnap them to further their evil cause? Do you really think that the average daughter would be just as enticing? I assure you, they would get more publicity from someone rich (for their money) or famous (just for media attention).

Would armed guards had prevented the tragedy? What happens during Martial Law? It is an immediate response to secure an unsecure city. Armed men rule the streets. It results in less violence from citizens, because no one is allowed to do anything after dark. Obviously, less crime is going to happen.

What about schools? Would armed guards have prevented this? They only could have prevented this if they shot and killed anyone who they thought had a gun, before the evil one had a chance to kill. Those vest do not protect all areas of the human body. The face, arms, hands, and legs are still very much exposed.

What would really help immensely to stop the violence in this country? Adding more counselors to schools would NOT help. I knew a kid who spend half his life in the counselors office and laughed at them. He laughed at authority. He did not give one iota what they said or thought. Lets try Behavioral Therapist who are trained to deal with PTSD, Arrogantly abusive Parents and helping children overcome the results of such abusive parenting, Autism, Aspergers and Mental Illness. These Behavioral Therapist would work in every classroom, during the entire day and would work one on one with those students who needed such help.

Anyone whose mental condition makes them afraid of people do NOT need to be mainstreamed! I've said this before in another post. What happened at Sandy Hook Elementary is what we should expect when someone who has a severe phobia is forced to face their phobia without the proper help. Why do you think they use a circular rope and have severe autistics hang on to the rope, and then slowly learn to go into the inner circle and closer to other kids just like them? They need to slowly get used to being around people. They need to be taught, one on one, how to read body language and how to interpret the world around them.

People who are not in their right minds are not the same people who are dealing with Austism Spectrum Disorders. Austism Spectrum Disorder parallels mental illness, but its not a mental illness. They just don't make sense of the world around them like we do. The Mentally Ill has a distorted view of the world around them. The difference is this. Pretend you were suddenly jaunted into a world with strange body language and spoke a language you didn't understand at all. Pretend they only spoke at you with no clues as to what they wanted. This is what some people with Autistic Spectrum Disorders see. This is not true of all people with this disorder, as the disorder has many levels of severity. People with this disorder have many more ways of viewing life, just like the rest of the world does.

The severely mentally ill, tend to be more angry, more depressed, more emotional but the difference is still in the brain and how the brain processes the world. They are more likely to hear voices and act on those voices they hear.

Behavioral Therapy where by the person works with the client IN the situations that the client goes through as the client is going through them (live time, if you will) can help teach the client how to behave and process the world around them.

Prevention would do more to change lives then laws to ban would. If we had cops on every corner, the pick pockets would just learn to be more clever in picking that pocket. If we were to teach people how to create their own healthy, legal jobs, they wouldn't have a need to pick pocket. No, paying for business degrees won't teach them this. It would help, though. Students need to be helped in finding their talents and helped in figuring out how they can make money off of their talents. Students also need to learn how to overcome their violent childhood whether that violence is due to theirs or others mental illness. They need to be taught how to read the world around them, no matter how their brain is wired. This will do more to prevent what happened at Sandy Hook, then any gun control law can. Remember, gang members still get guns and most of those guns they get, are illegally gotten.

Shame is NOT killed by dressing in the buff

Woman do not need to show breast in order to not be ashamed of their body. Dressing in the buff does not produce a shame free ego. We need to be concerned about how our way of dress makes men feel about us. It not that we should be ashamed that they are having issues of lust for us. Trafficking victims are not prostitutes who were given a choice. Most prostitutes weren't given a choice. Most prostitutes are victims.

Shame -
It is NOT shameful to dress conservatively.
It is NOT shameful to care about dressing in ways to help men be better men.
It is NOT shameful to cover-up cleavage so that men aren't lusting after what is not rightfully theres.
It is NOT shameful to dress such that men are less desiring of having a child in a sinful way.

We are taught that we as women, need to cover up, or we are bad. So, one person thought she should go in the buff to prove that the body is not shameful. The body never was shameful in the first place. Going in the buff does NOT make a person raise their self-esteem - from one who was in the buff for many a year. I am NOT ashamed of  my body. I AM outraged by the reactions I got from grown  men when I went in the buff. I do NOT need to see willies rise and want me everytime I walk by. That does NOT stop shame. That does NOT make me feel proud of ME. I know that if I dress in a the wrong way, men who have been abused themselves as children WILL want to go and have a child in a sinful way.

Is this what you want? NO! You are trying to stop this! What can stop this? Yes, we need to empower women. We need to teach male egotistical judges that prostitutes who were kidnapped as children are VICTIMS and did NOT go willingly. Some are 8 or 9 years old and forced into the traffiking. They sometimes kill to escape! That is NOT murder! That is self-defense!

Why do they think they deserve this? They are brain washed! Going in the buff is not going to teach them to not be ashamed of themselves. Being raped and molested is what brought on the shame in the first place!

These people were told a lie! Others were kidnapped. Teenagers are lured in by the promise of a better life. Children who did NOT run away, were kidnapped and forced into it with OUT having a better life lure put in front of them. Some were lured by candy, true. However, most are just kidnapped outright. See Jacob Wetterling. He was kidnapped in front of his friends without any promises whatsoever.

What is the solution? Teach kids from a very early age, what love is and what love is not. Teach them how to deal with life.

Lastly, victims who were raped aren't rags. The person who raped them IS, WAS and ALWAYS will be the Rag!

Europe vs. USA and Cultural Differences.

If you were to look at a movie's ratings and then view its contents, you can tell if the movie came from USA or not. Is this a good thing? Well, technically, no.

Europe ranks violence higher than sex content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to have intercourse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.

USA ranks sex higher than violence content. Problem is that Teens do not need to learn how to kill, maim, hit, abuse before they have learned how to hold a job, graduate from school, and be a respectable, mature adult.

Sex addiction begat pedophiles. Violence addiction begat killers of children. Both have caused many millions of children to be hit, raped, molested, murdered.

Think about it. Way back in the day, people respected each other. Teenagers wouldn't even think to talk back to a teacher. Teenagers wouldn't dare put a toe out of line. Now, teenagers rule with violence and sex. They threaten other peers with death if they don't get their sex and if the victim tells. We don't need this in our world. No society needs this. My sister was raped by 2 kids, repeatedly from age 6 to age 15. I believe I know who did this. They threatened to kill her if she told. I want justice. My sister refuses to tell anyone. My sister can not get a job because she is frozen. I will get justice for my sister if it the last thing I do. I will tell the police and ask them to help get this case to court. My sister face terrorist threats because of a sex addiction! Is this what you want for your teenagers? Do you want this for your little baby girl? Do you want her to be raped and molested? My sister got pregnant out of wedlock because she dared not ever say no!

Take a look at Greenland. Amongst the Inuits, the culture is that all 15 year olds should get pregnant before marriage and before they graduate from school. If they aren't pregnant, then something is wrong with them. That is the culture. Result? Illiteracy of all things. They don't have the opportunity to go to University, run their own business, make a decent living. They are stuck making holes in ice for food. They are stuck being sex slaves. They are not given a choice. They are told to they will do it, or else. Some are beaten with belts if they don't do it. Some have their heads thrown against a wall. Is this what you want your children to be like? Do you really think that this won't happen here too?

Here, we can choose to live anywhere in the world we want to live, have any job we want to have, be who ever we want to be. The Inuit Teenagers are not given this choice. They are banned from birth control pills. They are banned from abstinence by sex addicted parents. The alcohol and drug abuse rates are very high. The poverty levels are very high.

Many parents in Europe and in the USA get drunk and abuse their kids. Many kids are raised on pornography. Many kids who go to Naturalist camps are raised on pornography. Many kids are raised in very violent homes. What we allow our kids to see in movies does impact how they treat others. Teach your children to lust after every thing they see....teach your children to not deal with life in a healthy manner, and you will see your children imprisoned in addiction that will never go away without professional help. And, many of those children will grow up to be imprisoned behind bars as an adult for pedophile with a very young girl.

I can only hope that we wake up and change our movies to be healthier, funnier, and cleaner. I can only hope that the 2 neighbor boys, their mother, and their Uncles, and Grandfather if he is still alive are put in prison and the key thrown out. Yes, the father may also be to blame. What would be left after that? The triplets - 2 of which I am sure are innocent. The 3rd may not be, but I do not know. I do know that the triplet and the 2 neighbor boys and the mom were all victims of predatory Uncles and possible, their Grandfather too. The mom was a victim of her own dad and brothers. This too, is violence.

Only Children who are Actors does Drugs....NOT!

Look around you at every single school that houses children ages 13 - 18. Only look at those who do NOT work professionally in acting or modelling. How many of them are on drugs? How many of them drink?

Look around you at those same children in those schools, but this time only look at those who professionally act or model. How many of them are on drugs? How many of them drink?

Can we honestly say that acting and modeling causes children to drink and do drugs? Can we honestly say that if we BAN them from acting and modeling that they will NOT touch drinking and drugs? Seriously folks! Stop trying to ban children from acting and modeling. Instead, wouldn't it be better if we taught them how to deal with temptation and the stressers of life in the first place? Only those children who are taught how to deal with life face on, is really best equipped to stay away from drugs and alcohol. They are less likely to smoke too. And, just maybe, we can start with the adults and stop our own addictions. We drink and smoke. Some of us do drugs. What are we teaching kids? We are teaching them that a real adult who is worth their weight in Gold murders their body with drugs, alcohol and smoking. We are suicidal. We only deal with life through the bottom of a bottle, drugs or smoking. Our self-esteem is low. We follow the crowd of God-Haters and think that that is how we should be too. We are dying inside.

Some of us only have self-esteem if we wear make-up or dress sexy. Others only have self-esteem if they do only what the majority do. Guess what? Self-esteem doesn't come from the bottom of a compact kit or from how many men lust after you as you walk by. Self-esteem comes from within. Are you teaching your children this? You should be. I have gone to so many different churches and I look around. The bathrooms in American churches (haven't seen the toilets in UK yet) tend to have scented sprays or oils. I've seen many a women put on their make-up in there, or put on hair spray. God does not see an ugly wart when He looks at Women. Women see an ugly wart when they look at themselves. This ugly wart is the ghostly face they see in the mirror no matter how colourful their face is without make-up.

This view of self is why so many people are persuaded to follow the crowd towards drinking in the first place. This view of self is why so many people smoke. This view of self is why so many people do drugs. Acting or modeling did not cause this. Lack of true self-esteem caused this. Not learning how to deal with temptations or stresses in life causes drinking, doing drugs and or smoking. Teach your children how to deal with life - its temptations, it stresses, it up and downs - and you will have a child full of real self-esteem who stays true to themselves and stays clear of drugs, alcohol and smoking. They may even decide that they don't need to wear make-up. I did.

However, my parents did not teach me this. I taught  myself how to have self-esteem from within. I came from a very dysfunctional family. I was taught hate, fear, abandonment, 'parn' addiction and war. I had to teach myself so that I would not make the same mistakes the people all around me were making. I saw my mom wear make-up and still beat herself up because the house wasn't perfect enough.  I saw my dad parade around the house as he worshiped his own skin. He was a flake. He would make us attend church on Sundays, Legal Child 'Parnography camp' on weekends, and lead family Bible Study in his skin on that piano bench, with his fake tears of how much God meant to him. I only saw Hypocrisy. I only saw addiction. My mother was violent. She shook me until I passed out twice as an infant because she was afraid that she was going to be a bad mom. So, she became a bad mom - a black witch. I called her the 'B' word for many years. I even fantasized how some evil person would come into the house and murder my parents or murder me. (Hint: This was back then, and NOT how I am now! Why I've wrote this blog post.)

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is a killer disease. It kills families, friends, relationships, strangers, enemies it kills every living thing that gets in its way. It also kills peace. I was afraid of the night, not the dark. Even though blood was not shed in my immediate family, blood was shed in my mom's immediate family. She learned fear and abandonment from her mom and dad. Her dad was an alcoholic who killed her mom and then committed suicide. He wasn't taught how to deal with life. His relatives were drunks. The whole clan were drunks. They lived by the bottle, they swore by the bottle. They lived the bottle. The bottle killed them.

This is why we need to teach ourselves and our children how to deal with life without using a crutch. Drugs, smoking and drinking do not make life change for the better. Instead, those things will only make life change for the worst. My mother lost her parents to murder-suicide when she was Nine years old. It is time we stop the violence to our bodies and our suicidal tendencies. It is time we stop teaching our children how to commit slow suicide. Teach your children how to deal with stress and temptation. Teach them to stand up for others. Teach them how to live in harmony with others. (No, I'm not saying teach them pacifist lifestyle. The Jews were almost wiped out from Earth due to pacifist beliefs. Many people lost their lives and their freedom because of stupid pacifist who refused to believe what was really going on. You can NOT appease a maniac and get peace. Hint: Hamas means Violence. They are ONLY about Violence. They murdered 150 PALESTINIAN BOYS! And you thought they were all for kill the Jews in favour of the Palestinians. They aren't. They only want violence for violence's sake. Those 150 boys were mostly, but not all, kidnapped and forced to dig tunnels into Israel. Only a small amount of boys volunteered.)

PTSD needs to be dealt with in professional therapy and needs to include Life Skills, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Journaling with reframing, Anger management (in most cases), Stress Release classes, and proper diet and exercise. B vitamin supplements and D3 Vitamins are highly recommended.

Thanks for reading this!

Severe Autism Spectrum Disorder or Aspergers and fear of people

What is it like to be afraid of people? Its like having a spider phobia or a bee phobia except instead of avoiding those insects, you are forced to have them near you en mass every second of every day except when you sleep or can stay in your room. When in your room, you might hear those spiders or bees and this can scare you. Knowing that tomorrow, you will have to go out and face your phobia again is like facing hell. They become the enemy because you are so afraid of them, and because they never go away. They are always there, doing things you do not understand. They talk, they move and have body language that is foreign.

Imagine yourself kidnapped and put in the middle of a Muslim Extremists Camp. You are the only American. They have you surrounded as they go about their business. They make movements with their arms and hands but you do not understand what they are doing or saying. This is a rough idea of what it feels like to have a fear of people and be forced to move amongst them. The only difference is that the spoken and written language is often understood to a point. Its the body language that is often misunderstood. The finer points of language - the idioms, metaphors and ironies - can be missed or misunderstood by those with Autistic Spectrum disorders. Combine this with a mind that sees people as "the enemy" who is out to get you and you can have a recipe for disaster.

Another example is this. Putting a person who is afraid of people in a school, and making them mainstream and walk around at the same time as those people are walking around is the same as tossing a child into the middle of a lake and yelling at them to swim to shore without teaching them how to swim.

What is the solution then? With Severe Autism, they will use a circle rope and have the students hang on to the rope. They will slowly force the students to go a little closer to the inner circle and then bring them out, just so they get used to getting closer to people.

Hypnotism I am against on principle. However, I do wonder if it would have any long term effects on those with irrational fears. It might be cheaper then the method I personally prefer - Behavioral Therapy that includes 1 on 1 for forty hours per week, fifty weeks per year. This would be the type of therapy they use with severe OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) cases, but would have the procedure tailored specifically to the needs of the client. The therapist would go every wheres with the client and would act as an interpreter. They would also teach the client how to act and help them see the truth about someone else and about themselves. This therapy would happen at home to begin with. The client would not be forced into school until they are ready for school. They would slowly learn to get used to more people.

The client would not graduate into "being mainstreamed" ASAP. Instead, the goal would be to get the client comfortable with society as individuals and as a whole. Some of these clients have the problem that they see every cell in every leaf, and in every bark in every tree. These cells are everything a person says and does. These cells are every little minute detail in society. Imagine millions of these cells in every individual. You will see these cells as a person. The person who is afraid of people, sees the millions cells doing something other million cells. They then see billions of cells and do not always understand people as a person here and a different person there.  Their brain sees all the body language and speech at one time. This in turn becomes a blank wall. This wall contains so much data, that it is black and not readable. The text on that wall is black and looks like someone attempted to write the entire Bible on 1 sheet of paper and when they ran out of space, they started over from the top of the sheet. This is what it is like to have Severe Autism or Severe Aspergers and have a fear of people. This is how communication looks to me, in my brain.

It is hard to see peace, when you have an inability to sort through these cells, and piece them together to form a cohesive whole, and see one person only, and not all the other people and their cells. The Behavioral Therapist would help them sort through those cells and see the forest and then the trees, instead of seeing only the cells of that forest.

The client would write in some fashion stories that reflect their reality and the reality around them. They would read thousands of scripts that each contain the portion of dialogue to be understood that day. Role playing where they play the characters in those scripts would be apart of the therapy. They would learn how to act through acting classes that are strictly one on one, or two on one. More people will only be added to that class as the client is ready. The people added should include people who are like them and their teachers. Thus, if client A-One has graduated to having two teachers and client B-Two has graduated to having two teachers, then all 6 people would be apart of the class. However, the clients would be introduced to the new people one at a time and only when they are ready will the have all 6 in the same class at the same  time. The Six people includes the clients, of course.

The focus would be on life skills and living skills. Academics would be taught differently. A homeschooling method that included Sociological and Cultural approach to History, Maths, English, Grammar, and Science would be used. Specific techniques needed to help client overcome specific signs of a Learning Disability would also be included. For example, if the client has a cognitive disorder, meaning that they have Dyslexic Spectrum signs, but no one sign dominates, then they would have several Trainings that is specifically used on Auditory Dyslexics, Visual Dyslexics, Dyscalculia, and so on, as if they only had 1 of those signs instead of all of them. They would not be treated how Cognitive Disorders are currently treated as that method assumes an incapability of achieving anything great. This is does Cognitive Disorder Clients a disservice. I should know, I am one of them. My area of Savantness is in Social Science - Sociology. This is what I learned through personal life experiences and in my many classes I took at two Universities. I graduated from the latter, when they were registered as a college. They are becoming a University and are still deciding on their new name. I was an over-achiever who lacks the ability to pass the GRE so I can get my masters in the subject I was well versed in.

This is all I can say for now on this subject. The coffee shop I post at is busy and I am leaving.

What would I love to do in life?

I would love to take my education ideas to those with Cognitive Disorders and see how many of them we can keep off of disability and having better paying jobs then cleaning toilets for the rich while working only extreme part-time and even then, only no more then 4 hours max a week. If we're lucky, we can even wash those tables at those fast food places owned by the filthy rich who don't care how clean those tables are most of the time. It all depends on how busy they are. If they are too busy, they just want as many orders taken before the customers leave as possible. And, those tables? You aren't allowed to clean them. The filthy rich (and I am NOT talking about ALL rich, just the idiots amongst them who do this evil thing) would rather we focused on getting the customers in and out as quickly as possible and make them eat crap on crapped up tables! Filthy tables...tables piled on with germs and disease! Yes, I used to work at one of these places. I'll never work fast crap food again...ever! Those of you who call them McShit... You be correct! They ARE exactly that! Some are franchised so the rules change some between the various McD's. Their food speaks for itself and yet people still eat there. Go figure! Once I had a real burger made fresh and hot in Olive oil (back when I was still keeping burger down), I never craved McCrap again! Yes, Adult onset food allergy to Beef and Chicken. Could I sue McD's for causing this allergy due to the amount of times I had to eat it? ROFL No, I wouldn't! Ever!

My educational ideas?
Instead of treating Cognitive disorders with several different Dyslexic Spectrum Disorder "symptoms" as one entity to be treated like we currently treat cognitive disorders, we should instead treat each symptom individual in the exact same way we treat each individual  Dyslexic Spectrum Disorder.

Why? My Speech therapist treated my cognitive disorder's  Auditory Dyslexia as Auditory Dyslexia. This made me learn how to hear properly what people were telling me. It was NOT a cure. I still heard scrambled words in key paragraphs, making the entire paragraph rubbish from time to time. However, I still managed to not only graduate from high school, but I went on to college because my speech therapist taught me very well! I wasn't relegated to sub-par education because with a cognitive disorder, I should just "make do" and do the best that I can without expecting to do much. I told that I can do what ever I put my mind to, and wanted to achieve. I was also told to not expect straight A's, but I should really strive for B's. I promptly ignored that as I knew that if I tried for a B I would get a C and that if I tried for an A I would get B and an occasional A- that I was aiming for. Yes, this is how my brain works! :D

What would happen if we were help them overcome Dyslexia like we do the bright students with dyslexia? I think we would have less people like me on disability. We would save the government millions of dollars every year.

This is all I have to say on this matter. My brain just kicked out. LOL

Brilliant Idea to rid the world of "Evil"

I think we should take all people with the wrong "other abilities" and sentence them to no education of any kind because they are going to be on disability anyways. And, if we must, give them sub-par education. Oh wait! We do this now! Silly me! I thought we actually gave a *bleep* about the Deaf-Blind and afforded the experts they need in order for them to learn anything in this world. Notice EXTREME disgust in how we underfund education and in effect BAN experts that the deaf-blind need from getting the education they need and the funding they need so they can have good jobs working with the very people who most need them. We even have arrogantly refused to give the funds to the parents who try to send their children to Canada where at least 1 expert lives and works with these children. If I remember correctly, only 3 experts exist in North America.

What is the problem? Why do we give them a blind eye and the equivalent of a "die already, we don't care if you survive or not, who would care about someone like you"? Our actions give them this. As long as we refuse to fund the education they need to succeed in life we have, in effect told them to die and never ever ever have the socialization and education they need so they can learn who we are and what their world is. We have told them that they do not belong in our privileged world. WE have told THEM that WE only care about people with the "right" disabilities. WE care more about those who have an 90 IQ then we do the Deaf-Blind! That is outrageous! We should care equally for ALL children no matter what parts of them work and do not work! Period!

Lets start funding Education for real! Lets start forcing the Federal Government to pay for the education of the Deaf-Blind of this world.